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2008-06-26

磨蹭法宝之心语

今天在论坛上看到了一个帖子,是关于怎么对付磨蹭的孩子,让他们改掉这个毛病的5个招数. 7iH)D+Nz6  
第一招:一分钟专项训练。 LPQ{@+  
(1) 训练孩子专心做题。准备几十个简单的加减法口算题(根据年级不同,难度可以不同)。规定一分钟,看孩子最多能做多少道题。让孩子感觉到一分钟都能做十多个小题,而自己写作业的时候,有时候几分钟也写不出一个小题。 ,{>D RT ]  
(2) 一分钟写汉字训练,找一些笔画和书写难度相当的生字,看孩子在一分钟内最多能写书多少个字。记下每次的情况,并进行对比。 SE-AdS<  
(3) 一分钟写数字训练。我班上一个孩子的数字书写特别差,而且非常慢。这学期,我让他每天练习一分钟“0123456789”的快速书写。写一分钟算一次,看一次能写几组,他给我看了最近几天的练习成绩,原来一分钟最多能写5组,现在最多可以写9组,而且还写得工整好看一些。 :S?Zq  
    以上训练让孩子体会到时间的宝贵,原来一分钟可以做很多事情,珍惜时间。同时也提高孩子的写字速度和做题的速度。训练时以1分钟为一组,每天练习三至五组。在训练的时候注意记录孩子的成绩,并进行对比,练习时间以一星期为宜。 lp"Xj$=~  
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[JANE]:这一招目前可以当作趣味练习使用.和小子一起比赛,在1分钟内谁写的数字多,当然要认得出来的前提下. /XMD TXG  
第二招:停止催促,坚持表扬。 af._dCyP  
      孩子做事情磨蹭的时候,很多家长喜欢喊,不断的催促,结果感觉是越催促,孩子的动作越来,家长就更生气,孩子做某件事情的速度快,就表扬。如刚开始可以给孩子出几道简单的题,给1分或2分钟,孩子会很快做好,家长要作大吃一惊状呼道:“还不到一分钟呢!”总之,很夸张的样子。随时观察孩子在生活中的表现,对做得快的事情立即表扬。“现在穿衣服快多了!”“现在收拾书包快多了。”……这样的话。但千万不要说成“现在穿衣服快多了!如果写作业也这样快就好了”。只表扬,不提孩子做得不足的地方。通过表扬,会激发孩子内在快的动力。 7 b[K  
[JANE]:看来,是要停止催促了.催啊催,没见效,反而把自己的火爆脾气给燎起来了.没意思的.发脾气的时间打算用沉默来代替.在一遍默默地盯着他,数数,看他什么时候意识过来看他什么时候会脸红… z7nAYfo  
第三招:节约的时间由孩子自由支配。 <Yuux]  
    很多家长喜欢给孩子布置一些家族内部的作业,比如孩子完成了老师布置的作业,家长会布置什么读英语,孩子刚读完英语,家长又安排做奥数题。等等。总之家长给孩子安排得相当充分。孩子也看出问题的所在,那就是,只要有孩子空闲时间,家长就会安排任务。所以,孩子的对策是,化整为零,在写作业的时候边写边玩。这样拖很长的时间,由于老师的布置的作业没有完成,家长也不会另外安排任务。孩子在写作业的过程中就玩了。 jR4@tJV  
      对策:把每天老师布置的作业做一个大概的时候估计,将孩子需要完成的任务(包括家长布置的任务)进行一个时间预计。一定要给孩子留下休息的时间(自由支配的时间)。如一共要一个半小时,那么孩子一个半小时(甚至提前保质保量地)完成了,余下的时间就必须由孩子自己支配,如果玩他喜欢的玩具,或者打一会儿游戏,进行一会儿体育锻炼等。就是做孩子喜欢做的事情。养成这样的习惯以后,孩子会抓紧时间完成作业,因为早写完就有很多时间玩了。 <7D!@_Hy!  
[JANE]:这是一直在灌输他的观念.继续保持.以和尚念经的毅力坚持下去.一直到他主动意识到:哦,要抓紧时间了! ll[gX&Fex  
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第四招:从生活习惯训练。 R20+Y3b?  
    只能从生活习惯抓起啊,先给他规定时间,要求他在规定时间内完成自己要做的事儿。一位家长说,她女儿早上起床穿一双袜子要十分钟,孩子在床上把袜子理呀理,理得家长冒火。什么吃饭,穿衣,洗漱能拖时间,尽量地拖时间。 q]=@j=vC  
      对策:通过训练缩短孩子生活自理行为的时间。比如和爸爸妈妈比赛穿袜子,看谁更快。在比赛之间先教孩子怎么穿得快的方法,手把手地训练。家长在比赛时,可以故意放慢一点,让孩子觉得有有取胜的可能。甚至有时候不经意输给孩子,让孩子觉得自己能做得快。让孩子在生活中做事快,在学习中才会快起来。 Fq_ebAQ  
也可以用记时完成某一件事情,规定时间完成就表扬或记一个“★”;得够二十个“★”可以满足孩子的一个愿望。 j&aMxf  
[JANE]:这是一个新招.先藏起来,因为目前来看,数数还是有一点效果的,并且目前他还沉浸在大队长的责任当中… sq,CZEW  
第五招:规定时间没有完成立即停止。 >}B"\MG  
      有些孩子写作业拖延时间到晚上十点,减少了睡眠时间,导致第二天上课没有精神,降低了学习效率。周而复始,造成恶性循环。这时,我觉得可以给孩子确定一个作业完成的最后时间。要保证孩子十个小时的睡眠时间,很多家长规定孩子九点钟上床睡觉。所以到了晚上九点,孩子的作业还没有完成,就不再写了,要求孩子必须睡觉。作业没有完成,会受到老师的批评。以后,孩子就会抓紧时间完成了。这个是狠招,家长要具体分析孩子作业的量,有时候老师布置的作业超标了,就不能用这个办法。不到万不得已,不要使用这一招。 `pK:-rh|  
    总之,对孩子磨蹭,家长一定要用耐心和爱心帮助孩子逐步改正,不要操之过急。要注意总结方式方法,不断提高孩子的速度。 yh M48Tmb  
[JANE]:第5点,实在是不得已而为之.个人认为比较有风险.万一孩子觉得,反正作业完不成大不了就被老师K一顿或者罚站而已,这比做作业要好多了….恶性循环不得不仿啊,因人而异.对于我家孩子,我不敢试. @M {w<8  
有感而发,是以为记! 71R1J~  
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